Now reveal your form of a bestower #9
Form_of_a_Bestower_#9 Mohini_Didi September 9, 2026
Om Shanti! Baba said that the donation or the bestower, before becoming that you need to have love for every soul. Because before knowledge, the word love was not understood. But when we come to knowledge, the first thing we learn that we are all souls. So my love now is for soul whether they are your family members, whether they are friends they all are souls. As soon as you have that soul-conscious relationship, when I heard and I kind of agreed, accepted that I am a soul & everyone is a soul & I look at my mother, lokik mother o’ she is a soul. In this birth, she is my mother. But then in 84 births I will have 84 mothers. So whom I should not love? Do I only love this mother? Or I should love everyone because I don’t know who was my mother in last birth. You know internally truly when you think you are a soul, everyone is a soul it’s like unlimited, selfless love for everyone. And that’s what br. Nirwair is saying that when you have love for everyone, your life becomes natural. You are loving. With Brahma Baba, when sisters who came in the beginning or children, if you listen to their experience, everyone would tell you how much Baba loved me. I used to think o’ Baba loves me, Baba loves me. And others will say, Baba loves me more. The third one will say … so that means Baba has so much love for each one. One felt that I was loved the most. So it's a very beautiful feeling when soul conscious relationships, soul conscious love. Truly, you can all practice & see everyone as a soul & create that soul conscious love. Then Baba says that what they need is the cooperation which you will give; based on that, atmik love or spiritual love will be real cooperation. Like Baba says, virtue is required; whatever is required, you will give to that soul. But if there is not that love, I thought its the foundation of a bestower; first to have love, then cooperation & then power. But if I directly say I am giving sakash, I am giving power so again go back & see: do I have spiritual love, soul conscious love with everyone? And then you will know what is needed by that soul? And then you will give power. So the way Baba explains about to be a bestower & saying what Nirwair bhai was saying & we know that Nirwair bhai was a very loving person. I knew him since he came in gyan. He was 19 years old. He was in the navy. Because there was one sister in Jaipur; she was a lawyer & Baba used to also, so myself & she, Anandkishore dada was there, who will take care of Baba’s office in Pandav Bhavan. So then we all did for a while & then Baba gave and Anand kishore dada will sit on one desk & Nirwair bhai will sit on another desk & whenever we enter the office, he will welcome us with a lot of love, lot of feelings. So I think that for our own perfection or our natural life or our consistent stage really what is required is the foundation of spiritual love without discrimination, not looking at who should I love, who I shouldn’t love! But to just have love. That is also to be a bestower. That is also you are giving, you are sharing love. I thought it’s a very good point. We are still trying to understand what is charity. What is being a bestower? So the first one now is love. To be a charitable soul, to be a good donor, first you have to start giving, sharing love with everyone. And then cooperation & then the power, you can share power only these 2 qualities. Why I am repeating? Underline it & be clear that from where you have to begin giving. It’s not you need something, I give. what I say but that won’t be consistent; when there is love, then you give cooperation & then power that will be like power. All of us who have met Brahma Baba & Mamma, or Dadi Prakashmani, I know that I don't think there are many who have met Baba in this generation, but Dadi Prakashmani, many, many. In Shntivan, I ask people, majority have surrendered with Dadi Prakashmani. They came 14 year old boy, 16year. Many I know around then. Dadi told them just stay; don’t go. Okay Dadi we will stay. And then of course, those days brothers had to do laundry. Brothers had to go to post office & sisters are cooking, big wood fire, sometime smoke, chapatis.. Like Vishwaratan dada, he will come & help making chapatis. We will roll it because it was quite a big tawa (skillet), so he will do. So it was always like brothers always helped in every task. So those who have met Mamma Baba they always will tell you how much they have love for each one of us! There is one brother, a very rich family’s son but was not very developed mentally. So the parents said to Baba, I leave this child, he was 16-17 you take care. But they were a very close family, lokik. So Baba said leave him, now he was not mentally developed. So what Baba did? He got uniform of security & Baba gave him a uniform & then gave him a stick & said from today you will be my security person. So he was very proud. He will hold the stick. His name was Arjun Dada. We used to call him Arjun dada. So everyone will tease him & he will complain to Baba, they say like this… Baba will say but you are a security person; show them a stick, but not hit anyone. Baba trained him to give him his self respect; okay you cannot do this, you cannot do this at least you can do this. And the family, his parents so obliged to Baba. So many came at that time & Baba made them very worthy. There was one sister very short & wanted to stay in Madhuban. Baba said okay, she will cut only dhania (coriander leaves) & methi (Fenugreek leaves) whole day. Because there were so many. Baba had given him a spot: & she will very smilinlgy keep cutting spinach, all these things. So Baba gave duties to them & it’s Baba’s love; Baba was able to look at the soul & then give them duty & Baba’s love changed them a lot. So love has power in itself. And that can also remove weaknesses but make the souls useful in life. Otherwise, they had nothing, no future. But the way Baba helped them. Many if you listen to the stories, in those days there were no typewriters. So Baba got them a typewriter learn typing. Ishu Dadi said, Baba wanted me to write Murli & Baba would speak so fast. So she had to create her own way of writing in short, her shorthand, not shorthand people learn in school or colleges, but she created her shorthand. And the way they described when they came to Baba, they didn’t know anything & Baba taught them many things & they keep growing & growing. So I think when there is true love what that soul needs you will be able to share & make souls worthy so they have some future, future in yagya means: I don’t want to mention names, but they were 14-15. I was there at that time when they came. Baba said stay & then training they got in yagya & discipline they learnt in yagya, worthiness. Charity, bestower is not an ordinary thing that I give this, I give. It is something higher, something very high. So Baba is saying children of the Bestower are charitable souls. People of the world wonder; continue to be one of the charity. You children, donation is only one type of charity. Bestowers are charitable souls, constantly donate. You can have no desire to receive. Baba says temporary attainment from any soul. You always just give something. So Baba says that it’s like that if I get something, then I will give, or if this one does something, then I will also do something. You do something for me then I will do. So don’t have such limited desires. So, charitable souls, punya atma definition is not: you give me, then I will give. I will do it’s not I want to receive. As children of the Bestower, you are charitable souls who give love, cooperation & power to all the souls. So begin with the first quality of the soul: love for all the souls & then see further how your cooperation expresses itself & then power. Okay.
Om Shanti!
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