Constantly experience an unshakeable, immovable, & constant stage#2

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Unshakeable_Immovable_and_Constant_2          Mohini_Didi          May 2, 2026  

Om Shanti! 

It was so wonderful to observe a full day of silence. I am amazed how every scene was captured on camera in a very beautiful way. We saw how silence was observed in the kitchen, dining room and while walking. Baba wants us to be complete and perfect. What is the way to serve? Everyone in different capacities with different talents can serve but while serving, paying attention to your stage is very important. Keep watching yourself, sometimes it’s also good to be a detached observer for your own self also, not only detachment from outside or scenes of drama, but detach observer for yourself. You will really be like, I observe certain things about myself and I realize, “Oh when did I make that much effort?” Anything which I experience will help me to progress, to remain inspired. You feel that through the journey I’m reaching that stage of getting my aim accomplished. You feel happy and then you want to do more and progress more, whatever efforts we make, we are contributing to Yagya. Our example of whether actions or relationships can help the larger family to follow, and also to sustain the self and sustain the family. Whatever way we made efforts, one day you start observing that stage emerging, sometimes others see it more. If I can also observe, be a detach observer also for the self. Sometimes we observe but we do not detach. We observe everything but certainly somewhere I get connected or attached. So it’s not only observer but it is a detached observer. Baba always says that all that is happening, are just scenes of drama. This morning Baba said in Murli also what is there to cry about if somebody is leaving the body. The part has finished, that soul has to go and play the part somewhere.

I think we can be more detached and also very loving. That is the balance needed. Baba wants us to be loving and detached; it’s a very good and very subtle practice. Sorrow and sadness is not good and it comes from attachment, when you have someone with you, whatever way, naturally gets attached, therefore, we have to be very subtly watching ourselves. We have to be lovely because if you just detach and you’re not lovely, it doesn’t work too. I remember when I came to Gyan everyone used to come, my mother and relatives, but when they realized that I’m moving forward they all withdrew and they said we’re not going, because we don’t like what you’re doing now. So, I said that’s fine, I was alone for a few years, but I still continued on my spiritual journey, but one thing I did was that I was always loving because I thought they are doing their duty, right? As  parents they will worry about you, that if you don’t marry what will happen, so what they are doing is not wrong. What they’re doing is their duty, but I was determined because this is what I want, so I continued. However, after some time, everyone came to Gyan. they see there is happiness, there is success in life, life becomes very worthy, so they start seeing the benefits. Therefore, loving is very important, many times you cannot stay with your immediate family because of service, so just be loving, it doesn’t mean you distance yourself from someone. It is not that I am detached, so I cannot smile at you, or I’m not concerned about what's going on with you. Detachment should bring happiness not sorrow. I think that you can bring happiness, you can be a good example plus you will not emotionally lose your balance. Be detached from the scene of drama, and don’t hold any bitterness, any sorrow.  

Drama is also about applying full stop, whatever is happening is good, is beneficial, whatever will happen will be better and better. Sometimes little changes can scare you. To put a full stop: use drama, the other is, there must be some benefit in this also. Sometimes you cannot immediately see the benefits, but there is definitely some benefit. From time to time many types of obstacles come: such as when Baba says good special students come under the influence of Maya and become anti. Somebody loves you and later becomes so bitter. I don't know for whatever reason, they become anti and create a disturbance in the service, they talk about you. They say, “You did this, you shouldn’t have.” Baba says that do not become afraid because sometimes they   praise you and at other times they defame you. Brahma Baba was such a decent  person who was always good for a society, but he was defamed, right? Therefore, Baba says that don’t become afraid. What you have to do at that time is have mercy with an open heart and good feelings. Do not fluctuate because of that or have waste thoughts; waste thoughts cause you to be shaken and fluctuate. Those who observe the part of  every soul with the stage of being a detached observer. Baba says that if you are a detached observer, you will be unshakable. So, how do I know that I am attached?  Baba says to be unshakable, immovable and consistent. How do we check if we are detached observers: if you’re shaken whether emotionally or physically that means you are not detached. There are subtle vices either attachment or body consciousness. Even anger has very subtle forms, every vice can be seen when it’s expressed with attachment. Be loving and be detached so you won’t feel I’m distant or now I’m alone, there is no one. When you’re lovely you belong to everyone, you love them and hey love you. So detachment is not a hard thing. We can all be detached, but we care for each other, because we’re lovely. It is a beautiful family which has a lot of love for each other. It is a beautiful homework to observe yourself, so check and see your stage, what practice do you have to do?   Om Shanti