TO remain constantly Cheerful, be easy-Natured and tolerant #22

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Cheerful_Easy Natured_and_Tolerant_22    Mohini_Didi    June 22, 2026

Om Shanti!

How many of you have really feeling for Mamma as your mamma? Everyone? Wow!

One of the point which everyone asks if I see something in someone, should I tell that person, should I correct that person because some people don’t mind hearing it. But majority are very sensitive. So they don’t like it. Right? So Baba, anyone had something to resolve, some details, Baba will send them to Mamma. So Mamma will very sweetly first appreciate that soul for whatever that soul is and soul is doing. And after appreciation Mamma will say Baba explains us like this and Baba says like this. But she will do it in such a way that when you say Baba is saying it, automatically it has a big impact. So you don’t have to tell, “This is not right” or “You shouldn’t do this, this is not good.” But Baba has said it. Baba has explains it. It’s very interesting that the impact that soul has is self-transformation. Because we need to have what we call it - self-realization. One should know that I could be better in that, or I have lack of concentration, or whatever I do, I’m not doing it properly or completely. Because it is Baba’s seva, Baba’s yagya. So whatever we have to do, do it with full mind, full concentration, properly. Anything. So everyone will look and say she does everything perfectly. It’s not that you start something, leave it there, then start something else and leave it there. So what Baba, Baba’s yagya is about? Let everything, Baba used to say everything should be accurate. Everything should be perfect. Right? So if all of us, each one of us, whatever responsibility, whatever duty has been given to us, if I do it perfectly, no one will have waste thoughts. Because sometimes you said that you become responsible also to create waste thoughts in others. And then whatever sustenance I get from yagya, okay I use that sustenance. But how do I create fortune? If I do extra, if I do more than what I get, then that is your saving. That’s your fortune. So I always look at how much I get from Baba and how much I am doing. And then also reminding myself that in lokik job you have to be there at 3:00 0’clock, 8:00 in the morning until 5:00 and you do it, whatever has to be done, and your promotion depends on the quality of work, you did it properly. It’s like they could feel it and they say, “Oh, this one should get a better salary and a better status.” I remember one of the qualities which Baba and Dadis and including Mamma: do everything in a proper way, do everything completely. Because sometimes you are doing something and your mind is pulled somewhere else. So what Mamma, Dadis and we all learned from Yagya from very beginning, do everything properly, appropriately, nicely. You look at these flower arrangements. It’s not that we bought flower arrangements. They were created. Sister Sarita bought the flowers and we told her what designs we need. She created those designs. I told her, “You can really do a flower business because they’re so beautiful.” So I think that in our lives we should always see, “How beautifully can I do this? How nicely can I do anything?” And then everyone talks about that. It’s the vibrations for you are so good. But if you don’t, everyone says she just leaves it, she is pulled here and there. Those vibrations also interfere in your yoga of intellect. But to have yoga of intellect, everyone should really feel or say, and experience, “Look at how good it is, how beautiful it is, how nice it is.” Right? So at confluence age, Baba says you become praiseworthy, and in golden age you are worship-worthy. So praise is not something you really desire for, but your qualities, your way of doing things, your relationship, your conversation, the way you say things to others, the way you respond. So more we do it, the more the atmosphere of the yagya, and everyone will talk about how good it is, how good you are, how good it helps me. It will help you very much because everyone admires, appreciates and praises. Some say, “No, I don’t care what others think.” Well, there is a fact of how others think, right? So it’s very subtle and that’s what I learned from Mamma, that everything she taught us, did that every step, you could remember, this is how Mamma did. So discipline was one thing, but every time we saw she was very obedient and obedience is not that she was weak, so she is obedient. Obedience is respect. If I am obedient, I have respect for you. It’s not because I am subordinate to you. No. Why you have to tell me? No. Yes. You tell me, we will do it. So some are very, very subtle things. As you all are becoming more and more part of the yagya right and as you move forward, you will need more and more attention on interaction, our words, and everything. And we do it at the right time. 

So homework: cleanliness is a sign of easiness. Cleanliness is a sign of easiness. To the extent that you are easy, accordingly there will be cleanliness. And you will therefore attract everyone. Baba says to yourself, it’s not a negative, it’s very, very good attraction. There will be honesty, cleanliness. When you make your Baba says, nature easy and simple. Those with easy nature can also be what happens, so those with the easy nature will be constantly cheerful and will attract everyone. So easy nature. Don’t think too much back and forth of the past. Full stop. Drama. It had to happen. Move forward. Why to keep going back? Right? I want to move forward. One time one young sister, coming down the stairs, fell. So someone went to Dadi Janki, so-and-so fell. So that sister came, Dadi was saying, “Why did you fall?” Now we are looking because she needs sympathy, right? Dadi said, “Lack of attention.” And then we found out that she was going up and looking at the back. Maybe somebody was calling her. So naturally her attention, she fell. Sometimes it happens in our lives, want to move forward, we look backward. If I have to go there and I look up at the back, okay, past is past. Let’s move forward. So this way, that the one who has easy nature, is able to use full stop. It’s okay, don’t want to really go back into anything. Let’s move forward. So using full stop of drama and moving forward is what’s going to happen with the easy nature. Right? 

So how many of you are leaving tomorrow? Many are leaving. All from Canada, I know, they are leaving. So for a day or two will be a small family. So Avyakti Parivar will be in classroom because they are using this hall to decorate for the next program. Okay. 

Om Shanti.