Make your foundation of faith strong and remain constantly fearless and carefree#4

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Fearless_and_Carefree_4                    Mohini_Didi         March 3,2026

Om Shanti! Many times Baba says that children are careless. Baba considers laziness and carelessness as two major weaknesses. When you are lazy, then you are careless and your efforts are not consistent. Carefree, caring and careless sometimes get a little bit mixed. Especially at a certain age, we say that it’s okay, we don’t bother about many things. We need to pay attention, but we don’t. I remember that when Dadi Gulzar talked about our connection and relationship; now everyone will say Baba is my Mother and Father. Baba is my Teacher and my SatGuru. If the child is not obedient, or doesn’t show interest in what the father is doing, they are father and child, but it is not a good relationship. I remember that once you think in this way that I am Baba’s child, but how many mistakes have I made? How many times am I careless? If I am not obedient, therefore it affects the relationship. I always think that if I am Baba’s child, then I should follow Shrimat. So the relationship is very important, because if you are not following Baba, then you are a child, but not necessarily a close child. We all say that we have a relationship with Baba, but there is a percentage in that.

 During Brahma Baba’s time, those who were very close to Baba are because they really did what Baba wanted them to do. I always say first relationship then connection. You will find that when it’s a good relationship, your thoughts will reach that person with good feelings. So it is important to underline the relationship with Baba. You cannot say that I am a child of Baba, but I can do what I want, and Father has nothing to do with my life. There are many different kinds of careless attitudes and careless thoughts. Baba says that faith brings stability and it leads to success. These are two important things: stability and success. Faith makes you constantly carefree. So Baba says that those who carry out any task while in a carefree stage definitely become successful in life. If there is faith, I am carefree. Some people say that if I think a lot, I will be successful. Baba says, “No, even if you are carefree, you are still planning. You will still think, but not worry. When you are in a carefree stage, Baba says your intellect judges everything accurately. 

The basis of accurate judgement is for your intellect to have faith and to be at a carefree stage. There is no need to think about anything in that stage; faith in intellect and carefree stage. Actually, it’s a very good day. So we can keep the chart, check if something happened, I hear something, but am I carefree? Otherwise, if there is a little bit of worry somewhere, then you will go wrong. You won’t be successful. Recently, somebody called us. He is very young and he wanted to be a doctor. This is his last year before he takes the exam. Suddenly, he lost confidence, he started worrying and was very anxious. Subtle worry affects us so much. So his mother said, can you help, so we said that we will send a nice message. So if anything worries you, your energy is gone. Then you can’t do anything properly. There is a saying in Hindi, ‘chinta chita ke saman hai’. Worry is like sitting on fire, because internally, you are very much affected when there is worry. Today we should give this gift to Baba: Baba, I have faith in you. Baba told me many years ago, at midnight, I just got up because something was bothering me. I looked at Baba and he asked, “ Do you believe in me? Do you have faith in me?” I said, “Yes!”  Then he said, "Why are you thinking like that?” Since then, my attention has been so much on being carefree and having faith in Baba.You cannot give sakash or blessings if you worry. We look at Baba then share our good wishes. So our capacity for good wishes and blessings also increases. 

Om shanti