Imbibe the virtues of sweetness & humility to become great#25

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SweetnessandHumility_25             Mohini_Didi                     April 25, 2026  

Om Shanti! 

Is everyone happy, okay? If we are able to keep our mind and intellect engaged, I call it  an adventure or even entertaining. You can play around with thoughts, with words and also actions, because the value of life is to be sensible, that means to have the sense of what others feelings are. Interacting with everyone in a very respectful, loving and in a sensible way, because life is really about relationships. One feels happy if in your whole life, you have been able to, not only get along, but be very loving. When we look at the past we say, “Oh yes we lived together and it was such a beautiful time or we met for an hour but it was so wonderful.” Beautiful memories are left in that relationship. In relationships it is not only what I feel, but what others feel, then it comes to what we all feel. We have learned to always think about all of us, we don’t say, “You, we say we,” right? so it’s a beautiful way to really have a record of good relationships with everyone, whether I know that person or not, but the friendship can grow. When I met Brahma Baba the first time, he didn’t know me, I didn’t know him, but it was such a lovely bond where he took interest in what I’m studying and who I am. I also was watching, observing the way he was interacting with me. So, giving and taking in relationships and also our feelings and our words, they are very important. Baba is using the word ‘Yukti’, but in English I will say ‘method’ or the right way to do things. Baba is just saying to move along in a ‘Yuktiyukt’ manner. 

Baba comes and the experience we have of love, peace and attainments, that gives us determination that I want to transform. So attainment and experience is a kind of temptation where we can exchange, we can renounce and take whatever is very pure and loving. Baba is giving something else, so that we can let go of the old thing we were holding on to. Very interesting, so try this and see how it works, right? Baba says that in the same way, someone desires temporary respect or honor, or has some temporary desire, give him that respect and become humble. I have tried this many times because I feel that if there is unfulfilled desire in someone, it is not good. Not good for that person, but also for our relationships. It is like, I keep getting but another person doesn’t get, so I share with that person. I say, “You take it.” This is where there is real love and respect for everything. When correcting someone at that time, on the spot and putting someone down, it may not be your intention of humiliating, but for that person many things go down. Baba says that conflict will then be created, so it’s interesting what you do, certainly feeling the desires of others, let them do it, so then you see how that soul also becomes a bestower. 

Therefore Baba says that move along in a very Yuktiyukt way, whole life is about that, right? How can you be Yuktiyukt and sensible? Baba says that at such a time be merciful also, not just give teaching, but be merciful, because that person doesn’t know or that person doesn’t have that experience. So it is good to have forgiveness with respect. First of all make him understand, so that he could feel that this thing is harmful. So many times it happens, a new person is there or possibly it’s just a big deal. I always say okay this person is good at doing but certain things he may not be aware of. What we will do is sow the seed, whether it’s understanding, learning the method instead of just rejecting. Baba makes thorns into flowers but at least we can make flowers to be part of the bouquet. We can do something so just be attentive and see that your life is more valuable by being yuktiyukt, this requires love, mercy, and forgiveness, all these qualities help us, right? Then everyone is able to receive the respect and fulfill all the desires one has, so I think it is a really creative thing. These days I enjoy taking one word and during the day try to see how it works. What are the benefits? This is what we all have to do in a yuktiyukt manner. That’s our homework for today.

Om Shanti