Imbibe the virtues of sweetness & humility to become great#22

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SweetnessandHumility_22                 Mohini_Didi           April 22,2026

Om Shanti! Everyone looks tireless. When there is enthusiasm, there is motivation, inspiration, then there is no tiredness. One of the things which makes us very tired is unfulfilled expectations. We have a lot of expectations from people and when they are not fulfilled, then you are disappointed. I experienced this once and I am telling you this, based on my experience. I had about 25 teachers from one country and I had to meet everyone, so I met about 11 of them, then I was tired. I thought maybe I should take a break and rest, which I did. When I was resting, I asked myself, “Why am I tired?” Maybe, I must have said something to someone to do something and they didn’t do it, or I didn’t see any progress. I didn’t see transformation, I didn’t see improvement, and I accumulated disappointment. I said, “Well, I have to just listen and be a detached observer. I enjoyed meeting the rest of the instruments, I was so fresh. Then I realized that what is making me tired is not meeting people, but my expectation is not fulfilled. Since then I decided to have a higher vision for everyone but no expectations. Expectations are my desires, my outlook. Let everyone be what they are, let me keep a very high vision. My best wishes are for you to be successful, victorious. Keep a high vision for everyone.  

 What is it to be tireless and what is to be tired? It is subtle anxiety over anything. How will it happen? It might be difficult. When there is anxiety, it takes away a lot of your power, your energy. So have trust, have faith in drama and faith in yourself and Baba. Then you will find you are never tired. Baba is saying, “May you be constantly tireless and also sweet.” As soon as you are tired, irritation begins, then every little thing bothers you. I always tell people to rest for half an hour or one hour and you will be fresh. Then you will be sweet again. Irritation may not be anger but maybe a bad mood. So I just suggest to everyone, just be a detached observer, have a good relationship. Don’t get fed up with your sanskars or anyone’s sanskar. Have a lot of patience. Let there be newness, sweetness, contentment and ease in every word that you speak. Here people come in front of us, so how should our communication  be? Baba says that it should have sweetness and newness. When you repeat the same thing again and again, people feel you started your recording, you are not real. So anything we say,  we say it with newness. Baba says that words spoken by Brahmin souls cannot be ordinary. There should be elevated words. As soon as people say something, you recognize that person immediately. The way they look at you and speak. Baba says to continue to sweeten the mouth of others with your sweet words. You talk to anyone with the feeling of belonging and appreciation. What we express through words can touch other people’s hearts, and it helps them. 

Baba said that when you have sweetness then you increase the sweetness of others also. With the blessings: may you be constantly tireless and sweet, don’t give up. I always talk nicely but the other person doesn’t. But why should I lose your nature? You have been given a gift. Why should you lose it? So, how to be tireless? Even if the other person is not changing or responding, then internally you are disappointed, and you are tired. Baba says to constantly continue to move forward and fly. When you are driving or flying, there is a difference, because you are not higher, not elevated. Baba wants us to fly then you feel everything is small. Many times Baba says to change a mountain into a mole hill, Sometimes, Baba says to change into a mustard seed or cotton wool and blow it away. We used to say to Dadi, it’s a very big matter, it is very serious. She would say to make it small then you would be able to deal with it. If you keep thinking that this happened, that happened, then volume will keep increasing and you look at a big thing and  it creates a lot of wasteful thoughts in your mind. We can look at something, we recognize the situation and we know that we can take care of that and immediately, not only the answer comes, the method comes. They emerge in our intellect. So take blessings from Baba; be tireless and be sweet. Very beautiful blessings and I think we should all apply these blessings in our day to day life. Then it becomes our nature, our sanskar, our habits, our outlook, and our way of doing things. All these qualities will become part of our nature and personality.

Om Shanti