Imbibe the virtues of sweetness & humility to become great#13

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SweetnessandHumility_13           Mohini_Didi              April 13, 2026

Om Shanti!

Every moment, we can use it or waste it, even externally we might not feel it, but every minute, every moment, we can use it beneficially or waste it, whether in thinking, seeing or hearing. If we pay attention then we can earn unlimited income in one moment. There should be the nature of being introverted, not always looking outside, but looking inside. There is constant breathing but there are some who don't feel their breathing and they don't notice if there is something wrong. Same for subtle effort makers. One is a fast effort maker, but if you are subtle you are fast. So a subtle effort maker will always be watching the thoughts, paying attention to their thoughts and through the thoughts they know their sanskars. Yes, you have your ideas, you have your own thoughts and ideas, but if you have subtle attention then if you need to change you are able to change. So it is very important for us,through our thoughts, to know our sanskars and change thoughts to change the sanskars, because thought and sanskar have a lot of connection. You won't know your sanskars but you know your thoughts. So subtle effort makers pay attention to their pattern of thinking and correct themself. They ask themselves, “Why do I think this way? Is it necessary?” Therefore, if you correct yourself, through this subtle effort you will immediately transform. The realization makes it clear that I shouldn't be thinking like that or I should be thinking this way. What effort I should make is a common question, but there is so much Baba tells us about our efforts. We can do any type of effort, but at this time what effort should I make? You are listening to Murli, blessing, Avyakt Signal, there is a lot to practice, take anything you feel you need at this time, make efforts of that type, that quality. 

Today Baba is saying, “Be the bestower of happiness”. If a person is in sorrow it is difficult to give happiness. You will sit and talk only about your sorrow, but if you are happy then you can give happiness. So the aim is not to give happiness, but to be happy. If you are happy, what will you give? Happiness. Baba is saying that a humble soul can easily become the bestower of happiness. However, Baba said arrogance doesn't allow you to be filled with humility. Again, Baba is connecting happiness with humility. If there isn't humility, service cannot take place. If there is no humility, service cannot take place. The speciality of a server is that he is constantly humble. One is service, the other is seva. When we say I'm going for service, I'm going to serve; there is a different feeling for seva. We are sevadharis, right? So Baba says the speciality of this server is that he is constantly humble and always bows. It is not that you are subservient, you have self-respect and you are humble. Those who bow down, Baba says they make others also bow. The more humility you have, others are able to see the benefit of humility. When you are humble, Baba says that there won't be bossiness. You increase your influence and authority based on spirituality, not bossiness. 

Just as the Father comes here with so much humility, so follow the Father in the same way. Both Fathers, we don't see ShivBaba, do we? So how do we follow Baba, through Brahma Baba, right? Our Dadis, Mamma and Prakashmani Dadi were images of love and humility. They were very determined, very firm, that's why she could manage all this. So we can follow Dadis also. 

Do we have time during the day to think and churn? Through our pattern of thinking, speaking and behaving we clearly show what kind of sanskars we have. We keep changing our sanskars when we change our pattern of thinking and speaking. Also when we give our finger of cooperation in service. Be inclusiveness, acceptance of others, give a sense of belonging and good feelings for others. Our success is to keep the family united. One time Dadi Gulzar was saying that very good brothers and sisters in the foreign land had a lot of respect for the instruments. What you all have earned is their respect for you. So how do we maintain whatever is our responsibility, whatever is our role? Play in such a beautiful way that they feel the need for that kind of leadership, or even if we have our own ideas and personality, we give everyone that sense of belonging. This way the family remains united. As instruments we create that atmosphere. Our main responsibility is to maintain that unity, respect, and a sense of belonging in the family.  When Dadi Prakashmani gives an idea, everyone says yes to that idea. What were her qualities? How do we create that quality? So that belonging, acceptance, harmony, and unity continuously grows in the family. All are unique and they need to be different, right? Why should everyone be the same? However, internally there is love and harmony, that is what is needed all the time within the family, in the Yagya. So create such a sanskar or personality that the family can benefit from.

Om Shanti