Experience the complete & perfect stage the same as Father Brahma #6
Complete_and_Perfect_Stage_6 Mohini_Didi November 6, 2026
Om Shanti!
One is to consider oneself to be a guest, but also to take care of the guest. It's very important. I was remembering that, at that time, Brahma Baba personally took care of everything. Now we have people to give us rooms and different departments to provide whatever we need. However, in those days, Brahma Baba personally took an interest in who would get which room and what food they should receive. I remember when Baba used to come to Delhi. Every time, Baba would say, "Come to Madhuban for the holidays." But for girls to get on the train was almost impossible. So, I was trying to see if I could get someone to accompany me. Finally, I told my mother, "Let's go." It was difficult, but we came. The room that was given to us had been chosen by Baba. What food would be cooked? You all know that in those days, there was something called whitewashing, not painting like we do nowadays. Whitewashing was done once a year, and they would do it every season. So first, Baba would say, "My children are coming.” They are coming from the kingdom of Ravan, so I have to prepare for them. “They are coming here to get spiritual rest." It was as though Baba would prepare everything for us. In the beginning, people came from Delhi, Bombay, then Rajasthan, and then Gujarat. Nanhī Behan was there, along with Ramesh Bhai, Usha Behan, and others. They were all close children of Baba.They would simply tell Baba that they needed chaach in the evening or that they wanted kadhi and khichdi. So, the next day, Baba would give the programme to Bholi Dadi, and she would arrange it. Baba liked to have chaach. Baba took an interest, but he would take only a little, so that you wouldn't feel that they were doing all this just for you.
Baba is connecting every stage that we become Avyakt from Vyakt. So, if we can connect every point, even the point about guests, because when we are not in the consciousness that I am a guest, we become very much involved in physical things, external things. When I say that I have to be Avyakt, then our homework should be to maintain the awareness that I am a guest. How does this help me to remain detached? That is the whole thing. That is why today's heading is "From Vyakt to Avyakt." There is something called being detached. Another aspect is being above, being in an elevated, detached stage. The world is very difficult for worldly people. For me, the way I understood it, is that I have a lokik family and an alokik family, but my relationship with everyone is as a soul. So, it is not about leaving anyone; that causes a lot of sorrow. This time, we were bringing a few kumaris for training, five of them came, and their mothers were crying. So, I asked, "Why are you crying? They will come back." They said, "Oh, maybe they will go and never come back."
There is attachment, isn't there? What will happen? Will we see them again? Because in the Swaminarayan tradition, once you have gone, you can never get in contact with your family. The family will not know where you are. We have a mother whose grandson, a doctor, 29 years old, decided to join the Swaminarayan tradition. But after that, when they go, wherever they go, they cannot contact their families. So, one time, one of the families saw him somewhere. They were so happy because they had seen him after many years. They send them into villages, send them far away. So, I said, "At least in the Brahma Kumaris, they allow you to go home once in a while." There is definitely something in our training where they tell us this. So, attachment should not be there. The main aim is that when I am a guest, I should not get caught up in the physical and gross world. Rather, I have to become angelic. What does it mean to be angelic? It is like being detached. Nyara and Pyara — detached yet loving. There are so many things. How can you do both? How can you be loving and also be detached? Through soul consciousness. The soul is loving. And then I have a relationship with everyone, but it is through soul consciousness. So, you will feel and share a lot of love because love is very important. Dadi Janki used to tell us that we have so much love for each other. Because one time I was asking Nirvair Bhai, "Now we are away, and suppose body is not well. Should we inform you or not?" Because if we inform you, you will become concerned. What is happening? He said, "They are family, aren't they?" If you don't inform us and we come to know through someone else, we will ask, "Why didn't you tell us?" So always, in the Yagya, this love is there, which is soul-to-soul love, love through soul consciousness. When there is soul-conscious love, there is no sorrow. When Brahma Baba left his body and we received the news, no one had tears. We were in deep silence. Surprisingly, we thought that when we would receive the news... When Baba left his body, Nirmal Shanta Dadi was there. When the Bhog message came for the first time, Dadi Gulzar and Baba came to give drishti on January 21. So, all of us had a little bit of tears. Nirmal Shanta Dadi went and sat in the front. Baba has never allowed us to do that. Daughter, see, the relationship should be there. Love should be there, but not attachment. That is quite an elevated stage, isn't it? So, I think when I am a guest in the body, how many people do we meet when we travel? We meet so many, but we know that we are not going to be together forever. So, how do we have love but also remain like a lotus flower? I am a guest in the body. I am a trustee of this body. So, in every respect, Brahma Baba transformed from the corporeal form into an angel. So, when we have to follow Brahma Baba, that means I also have to be detached and loving, like an angel. There could be many, many different meanings of being Avyakt. Baba says that in order to attain the final perfect stage, the Avyakt stage, continue to move along while considering yourself to be a guest. So, Baba says that those who consider themselves to be guests remain in their elevated, detached stage. So, let's say today, during traffic control, you take a few minutes, or whatever time you have, and see how you are maintaining the awareness: "I am a guest." How does this connect with the Avyakt stage? Baba says: Remain in this stage while in the corporeal form, and have no attachment to anyone. We are guests in these old bodies and in this old world too. Not only the body, but the world also. We have to use these bodies for just a short time. We only have a short time to use these bodies. It may not seem like a short time now — 60 years, 80 years, 100 years — but it is one body for a short time, and then another body. So, today's homework is to maintain the awareness: I am a guest, and experience the Avyakt stage. This is how Brahma Baba attained the stage of perfection.
Om Shanti
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